Jannell -- I know nothing about tounge piercings so I'll just send some hugs. I know you are angry and hurt. My best suggestion would be to wait until you get home, take your dear sweet spoiled daughter who was disobedient ONE time out for a mother daughter date. Chances are, she is nervous about you finding out so let her be the one to tell you. When she does give her the most loving hug you have inside you. Talk to her about about your feelings and not to her. Please don't let one incident spoil an otherwise good relationship. Hugs
