I was in my mid 30's, when I had mine and it was the best thing I ever did! The relief was almost immediate. There was very little pain from the surgery and all the bad symptoms I had were gone. My daughter is going thru what you are going thru but is in so much pain that she has decided the surgery would be best. As someone else said, adoption is always an option. It's not the same as carrying it yourself but it is pretty darn good. I have several friends that went that route and it has been amazing. Good luck honey, Patty |