So glad you're back! I actually had just started an email to Villette to see if she knew anything about you and then thought, I'll just go look one more time to see if she's posting again and there you are!! Yep, when someone like you goes missing for even a couple days, it's noticed!
I think your situation may have brought some awareness to the board regarding information that evil posters can pick up and use to their advantage and our disadvantage. I, for one, am definitely going to be more careful. So sorry that you had to suffer for others to have that lesson drilled in.
Welcome back to you, Stedman and Tatum!