Ahhh, I completely forgot to add this in my first post!
Ok and I am not big into this type of stuff, but this was my horoscope yesterday. My jaw literally dropped when I read it

How appropriate, huh! Makes TOTAL sense!
The less you take personally, the easier your life gets. 'But how?' you say. 'They said that to/about/ me!' Everyone has a complex situation. You can't understand their motives, so get on with your own life.
SO TRUE!! And that is
EXACTLY what I am going to do!