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Originally Posted by patty58  Oh honey give it time. My husband and I have been married for 38 years and there are always ups and downs. IMO men and women are soooo very different in expressing their feelings. We went for years with my husband traveling all the time and me at home with kids. It didn't seem like we talked much and if we did it was aboaut trivial things...he did his thing and I did mine but we always knew we loved each other. I had several "talks" with him and things would get better for a little while and then I would have to remind him again...and again....and again. Things and people do change and it will never be like it was when that first bloom of dating fades...IMO. We are so much closer now and talk about things again. We have had several really bad health scares and that has made us (him) appreciate what we have and he is awesome. I think we all have the feelings at one time or another that you are feeling but don't give up yet. Patty |
Perfectly said and the same here. 35 years on September 13. They can be a challege but if you love them it will work. You have to remember one thing we can be pretty hard to live with ourselves. And the two secret words are Communication and Trust. If you have that you can work any problem out.
1 year, Patti58 can you remember your first year.LOL