[Potter]

Its been a while since I started a thread in Yorkietalk. I needed some honest opinions from fellow YT members. Hubby and I have been married for a little over a year and I have been feeling the changes. I am now in my home country visiting my family for 3 months and he is in Costa Rica working for 3 weeks. I feel that he doesn't care about me so much anymore compared to dating days and we have only been married for like a little over a year? For those who are married, is there a difference between how your man treats you before and after marriage? If there is, is there a big difference?

Say when I fell sick and I tell him, the next day or after he doesn't remember/care to ask (I don't know which). If I ask him why he keeps forgetting, he'd say he is too busy with work (could that be an excuse all the time?). Today, my father-in-law met up with my parents for the first time as my FIL flew in from Canada just for meeting up with my parents. I have told hubby yesterday. Today, he didn't call to ask. It is a Saturday morning in Costa Rica. So I called him and mentioned it and he was like "so how did it go?" but it felt like he had forgotten about it and I had to remind him and then he asks questions. I imagine if you really love and care about a person, your wife and your dad is meeting his/her parents for the first time, you'd be really excited and will at least remember to call and ask or hop on to chat to ask. He was also very excited as he is going out today with his colleagues in Costa Rica (his first work trip there) but does it mean that I have to be sidelined?

I am very dissapointed because I feel he does not care about me....over time, I am feeling more and more tired.