I have to agree 100% with Jodie - There's always going to be internet 'trolls'. Pay or free - there's always going to be JERKS in the world and with the net being so huge - we see WAY more than we would in real life.
This 'recent' stuff isn't the worst I've heard about although what was said to SKJ1113 was evil and vicious

we have to consider the source - it was a COWARD who hid behind a fake name.
just use your common sense when talking to people. Most all are honest and up front but keep in mind - some are not ....Ask yourself - what are their motives for their questions ?
Most all of us ARE here for fun - but not everyone on the net is like us. When you have a funny feeling about a private message - or you don't want to share information - DON'T. just be up front and say "I don't feel comfortable with that".
like lots of you ....I get pm's all the time about the girls and while I don't refer Chanels breeder - I just let them know in a nice way it was NOT the best experience. Most people are here for the right reasons. It's only a very small percentage who want to cause trouble.
ps....A jerk is a jerk whether they paid a fee or not - making this site pay only will change it and believe me - if someone is out looking for trouble - paying a little fee isn't going to stop them