Oh my gosh.
My heart is breaking for you, I'm so upset. You did everything you could to help this baby, and I know you were so attached.
I also didn't see that thread you wrote, but I think that person was very cruel as to what they said about Lily. Some people have nothing better to do than be a bitch and bring others down! I may sound like I'm being a bitch now, but I hope this brings light to that person and makes her feel like s**t.
Again, I'm sorry for your loss. Hang in there. We are here for you.