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Originally Posted by MissSophie You are not alone. I have worked with hundreds of couples in the same situation. There is so much pain. I work in Nebraska for an adoption agency, and I see so many couples who deal with infertility. Some have an explanation, and others do not. I hope that you find peace in whatever happens. People who do not understand infertility say some very hurtful things, and often it is your family and friends who really only want to see you happy. Don't be afraid to share with them that you are hurting. Best of luck to you. |
Thank you for this beautiful and thoughtful post. I really do appreciate your words of compasion. I know my family would understand...only reasoning behind me keeping it from them is I am the only one or first one to have tried for a baby in my family besides my sister who lives in Hawaii.....days aways from us so the grandparents are dying for a grandchild. I do not want to get everyone excited if it is not going to happen - ya know.
Although I have confided in my older sister in Hawaii and you are right - she has been so great to talk to and supportive.