oh I know how you feel! I have REALLY bad menstruation problems...I have gone any where from 3 to 6 months with out my "friend".
Well when my hubby and I where dating.... We never really used anything to not get me preg. but maybe the 1st few times we "made love". yeah yeah I know... Bad girl.
Well we where married for almost two yrs (We where together 4 or 5 yrs total) before I found out a I was preg. I found out about 2 or 3 weeks before my APT to my OBGYN BC we where kind of trying but everything we did on are own, failed...SO we just didnt really think about it for a while or TRY(we still did you know what...but where not I guess thinking about me getting preg.)...and I made a APT with a OBGYN at the end of Nov last year and didnt think anything else about it... so on thanksgiving we went to my hubbies boss house for dinner and one of his little girls made a comment to me about being preg. Oh ofcorse I was like no and kind of blew it off...well when I got home.. I took a test. Yeah the little brat was right! (You know kids are always RIGHT about these things!!) I was preg!
I was soo Excited and Kind of caught off guard lol
So, Just relax and dont stress out about it... and it will happen. I know it sounds easier then to do but the more you stress about it...the more its just not going to happen.
Also you dont want to get sick of having "you know what" and make it a chore. Then it really wont be any fun trying.
Keep your chin up and it will happen when you least expect it... It Always dose