I can't believe that happened! I too was a lurker or brand new when you used to do the "Stedman is..." posts. Everyone knows that you're a great mommy to Steddy and Tatum, or you wouldn't be on here looking for answers to help make Tate better! If you weren't such a good mommy to them, you wouldn't take 100 pictures and post them all on here for us to oooh and aahhh at, and you wouldn't dress your dogs up, give them all those treats, and you certainly wouldn't have the time to be on YT. So since you do ALL of those things and more, you're the BEST mommy to those two little furballs!
Keep your chin up, and let's try and get through the icky times on here together. You have a HUGE fan club

and lots of friends who need you and your great pics, your encourging comments, and your wonderful advice.