I have one more thing that bothers me - I'm not really afraid, but........
I can't flush the toilet in a public place (in a small enclosed stall) until my hand is on the door to come out. When I flush I have to get out of the stall as soon as possible. I'm OK if I am in a large stall where I can stand away from the toilet.
And I HATE those automatic flushers that flush before I can get out or worse yet

flush when you reach for the toilet paper before you get up
For some reason I have a vision of the flushing water spewing up and into my face. I know, I know, that is stupid, but it really bothers me.