I have to agree w/ candybaby...this dance is not good for everyone involved you should come right out & ask her if you should drop off her pup to her but if she's having second thoughts on having a pup it would be no problem for you to adopt him...if you don't get this out in the open & get some kind of clarity you run the risk of her having hard feeling as if you stole her dog & those types of feelings are what your trying to prevent...your always going to be waiting for those dreaded words from her & walking on egg shells til this is really resolved.....good luck...