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Originally Posted by camly  I just wanted to say that in the beginning and for the most part this thread has been very honest and civil, minus a few posters. i have not seen anyone bashing stacy ... the only thing pple have referred to stacy is to ask her to talk to the people trying to get a hold of her. that was it.. |
Yes, you are correct, this thread did start out in a very civil light...for Michiko to express her concerns and as an outlet for her frustration over the situation. I understand why she would be upset.
Unfortunately it has become something much differernt and nasty--and not by the efforts or comments of just one or two people, but by several. I'm kind of shocked that the thread hasn't been locked for THAT reason. It would be a shame because it might have been a way for the two parties to get the matter resolved, who knows.
As for is anyone has 'bashed' anyone else, 'bashing' is a harsh term and only means what each individual interprets it to mean. However, there have been several negative comments make in regards to Stacey that are
nothing but speculation--I think that is why some people are getting upset because those type comments ARE unfair AND damaging. If Stacey has done wrong then she bears the burden of that on herself--but let her do that for herself, don't contribute to it with rumors of 'what might have happened' or 'what you think is going on.' If Michiko or anyone else needed to voice their concerns I certainly understand that, but let them voice them, offer support, sympathy and suggestions and leave it at that.
I fully understand Michiko's frustration and believe that she IS entitled to what she was promised and paid for. And I think it took a great deal of courage to post something against someone I KNOW she has had a great deal of respect for as I have spoken to her regarding this situation before this thread was started. I have a Bassett Hound that is AKC registerable that I NEVER bothered to send in paperwork for, there wasn't a need, but I made DARN SURE I got the paperwork with her name on it regardless, so I DO understand the desire for that. I truly hope that
Michiko and Stacey can work this out in a way that suits THEM.
