Im going thru the same thing with my new little girl molly, she hates its to, but i keep putting them on her every day, for at least an hour or 2, karleigh loves to where anything, my boys i leave naked ( oops) poor babys, they dont like it either so i dont push it with them, as far as bows go, same thing , they rub there hair in to the carpet untill they come out

good luck and keep trying