Man
I sure wish it WASN'T against the rules because I think it is an absolute WONDERFUL idea. If people want to donate, it's their choice, and if not...they don't have to.
I know that I personally WOULD feel more comfortable donating to those that I knew and trusted. And I don't mean that in a rude way, I think it is great to help out ANYONE who has sick and injured babies, but I honestly would probably only choose to donate to those who have been members of YT for a while in order not to fall victim to scams, or people just trying to con money out of others.
I really do think this would be a fantastic idea though, because after all, the option to donate would be YOUR choice and YOUR choice only.
I think it is wonderful and would really help those precious babies out that are in need!