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Originally Posted by BamaFan121s  I'm not taking sides here, because quite honestly, I have respect and concern for both parties involved. Plus, like most everyone else who has posted, I don't know both sides.
However, look at this thread, the posts, and the tone that it has taken. If Stacey DOES have a side to present (which is really no one's business but Michiko's) can anyone blame her for not being gung ho at presenting it at this point? I mean honestly, I think that even if she gave a perfectly understandable explanation at this point, what difference would it make? The damage has been done...and maybe rightfully so, I'm not to say. I just know that if I logged on and came accross 6 pages (in less than 24 hrs) of being drug through the mud, challenged and having had what 'might be the case' regarding my personal life thrown about, I probably wouldn't be so accomodating either. (Of course, even on a good day I wouldn't discuss my business affairs and personal life here, soooo...)
I've come to hate it when situations like this are brought up, regardless of who is right or wrong. It's generally a lose-lose situation for all sides.  I realize maybe it's neccessary at times, it's just sad and unfortunate that these things happen at all. |
This whole situation is unfortunate however, if I were a breeder, I never would have let it come to this. Problems should be addressed when they arise, then they won't snowball into a huge mess. If the breeder was honest and addressed the issue, rather than ignoring it for months, it would not have become the mess that it is becoming. Just because you ignore a problem, does not mean that it will simply go away