Yes. he (my husband) did blame himself at first, but it was a crazy accident that not even I would have thought could happen. My 12 year old son even tried to blame himself because he said at one time he thought he had heard some noises and didnt go and investigate. It was awful. And It just hurts so bad to think of the way she died trying to get out of the still water,and nobody could hear her crys.
It hurts really bad) Thank you all so much for your prayers and thoughts. You are all so kind.