[lisatodd]

we all feel your pain. if you look thru the training forum here, you will see how so many people come here for this advise.
i am sorry i don't have any advise for you. i have a 7month and 10month old who still is not potty trained. i am a stay at home mom and i catch them all of the time, say no, place them outside and tell them to pee or poo and i praise them for doing it.
i have had two train with in two weeks.

so i can't say what to do but to keep trying.

it appears from everything i have read, it can take up to 9 months to a year b/4 some of them will get the hang of it.

good luck to you.