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  I would think your idea might work.  That's what I would do.  I think if you catch them in the act, grab them and say no and put them where you want them to go.  I think her idea of ignoring it if you catch them is silly.  But if you don't see them do it, then ignore it because they will have no idea what you are upset about.  They might react to the tone of your voice and look contrite, but it's just the tone of your voice that is effecting them.  They really don't know why you are upset.  |