I remember how it happened with me 2 months ago, I was hearing my baby Yufee making noise with his water and food bowls, feeling him around me and keeping low light in my bedroom at night, I still don't turn the lights off when I sleep I didn't want to believe that I lost him so I left everything the way it was for a few days and this was making me cry even more. Maybe if you hide all the pictures and their belongings it will feel better cause u start crying hysterically after you see a picture or a toy, that brings too much memories and if u hide them for a while that may comfort you a bit... spend more time outside and keep yourself busy with something, or go see a therapist and talk about your baby - when you share it with a specialist they know how to calm you down and get over the grief a bit
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Kaya's mum-to-be
Tsveta, you are entitled to your opinion but I think you have to cry to get past a death. I hate, hate, HATE, HATE to cry. I hurt for days afterward. My body aches, I get head aches and my sinuses hurt like he**. But holding it in makes me feel sick all over. I'd rather hurt for a few days than feel sick and not be able to let it go.
I hope you are feeling better now, you said this happened 2 months ago, how are you feeling now? |