You are so right! When Bandit died we'd only had him a month. People thought I was nuts for mourning him the way that I did. My husband was so worried about me, I couldn't get out of bed I was so devestated. I came back on to YT because I figured the people on here would understand. And understand they did. I wouldn't have gotten through it without everyone's help. I lost a baby daughter at birth 10 years ago and at the time I wouldn't go to a support group. I didn't want to talk about her. I realize now that if I had sought out people who would let me talk and were loving and supportive the whole mourning process would have been different. YT was there when I needed it, that is why I became a donating member...to give back for some of what I received, although I could never repay the wonderful people who helped my through the loss of Bandit. This is truly a family. I am hurting for you and for the others but that's ok, because you need to know that we are here for you. I will continue to pray for you to receive comfort and peace. |