Welcome to Y.T.!!!...All I can say on the decision of which sex is it was best making up my mind in person...I have two boys, but I fully intended to get a girl each time...when I got to the breeders home to see them in person my eyes went like a magnet to a boy. lol.... No matter how bad I wanted the girl the connection just wasn't happening for me....I wouldn't dream of purchasing one now w/o seeing it in person....I have not regretted my decision at all ...Good luck w/ your new family member