because of how you spoil your yorkies? My family doesn't say anything (at least not to me), but my son-in-law's family are always making remarks. They can't believe that when I visit my daughter, I bring toys for Jake to play with in his own bag (they refer to it as a "diaper bag"...or that he wears clothes...or that I will follow him around with a camera...or that I take so many pictures of him....etc., etc., blah blah blah
I'm sure they all think I've either lost it or maybe it's menopause

I actually think it's funny, and I talk about him just to tick them off. I know they think I'm ridiculous, but who am I hurting? What's so bad about loving your dog? Jake is very well behaved despite being spoiled, so what's the big deal? I see them

to each other when I'm playing with him or talking to him. Just wait until his 1st birthday, and I take pictures of his little party and make them suffer through them
What do your families and friends think?