I do the same as ChloeandJ, I put a latex band in then attach the hair bow or barrette. I like the barrettes best and you can find the french clips at any craft store. Glue them on your bows after you use your latex band or cut off the bands and glue them on. They last longer I think and instead of paying the extra dollar for a bow with a barrette back you can get a whole bag for 2 bucks