Julz sorry to hear you need surgery. Hang in there and do the best you
can and try not to stress. It's just not worth it. You have enough to handle
as it is. I also wish I lived closer to help you. I would be happy too.
Please take care of yourself and continue working on your patience
It's hard when you are so use to doing things yourself and have to now
depend on others. Don't even think about it, I am sure everyone is more
than happy to do what they can for you. Stuff happens.