Welcome, Trinnie. Your baby is VERY cute!
Believe me, YT is NOT a popularity contest. If it were, I'd never get any responses.
I've only been here a few months and have been amazed by the kindness, generosity and depth of wisdom to be found on this site. And I continue to be almost every day.
Think of it as a crowded party. If you're like me, you walk in and immediately start looking for people you know. If you don't know anyone, you start eavesdropping on conversations to hone in on one that interests you. Or, you try to see if there are any nice-looking guys that you might WANT to meet. But none of that happens if you just stand quietly against the wall
But I digress ...YT is a lot like that. You get to "eavesdrop" from the posts and as you start talking to people and they get to know you, you get more and more responses. So, get out there and mingle, girl!