Don't get down. There's one waiting somewhere for you to love.
Hang in there. It will happen.
I would visit the pound frequently if it's close by. They get to know
you. Are you on a waiting list? The little ones go immediately so that
is why it's important to go there.
Did you try looking on
www.petfind.com
I have seen several in NJ. Most are young also.
Good luck. Keep us posted.