Could you possibly post pictures of her? I understand things happen. Your heart is probably broke right now. People may come off sternly in here but it's only because they care...Your baby seems to be in good hands and you seem to be doing everything right. As far as the shots go I am assuming you meant she is up to date on all her shots as of right now...not she has had ALL her shots. Which is good. I held off on my rabies shots also due to vets recommendation. I dont think she is at risk of Rabies right now and some dont give rabies vac's at all! The litter is a great way to try and train your baby, again some are not familiar with Dog litter and instantly think of cat litter when the word litter comes up. As far as frontline goes, also another right move. To have it on hand anyway. It is a great preventative and can be used on puppies at 8 weeks. With all she is going through I would not use it right away. I am fearful of too many things at once may get my babies sick so I try and do things in small steps.
The Nutrical is a great tool to have on hand also. My Diggy was only 1.3 pounds at 8 weeks so Betty seems to be a good sized baby and healthy! He is 14 weeks right now and 2.5 pounds approx. These babies tend to be hypoglycemic so I every morning and every night before bed give him a pea sized amout to be safe.
Until she gets a lil nore weight on her and her body and regulate sugar better its a great tool and helper! If you need anything or just need to talk you can always het ahold of me or anyone else on this site. Sooo many nice people with great advice....Please keep us posted on the quest to find Betty a new home. I am sure it will not be hard and be sure to tell whomever it is that is making you give her up that you cannot just get rid of her...She deserves to be placed in a good, responsible home. I wish I was closer I would take her. I tell you what post pics...and Im gonna see how far Brooklyn is from Detroit I may be interested in getting her for my sister. She has a female thats almost 2 and loves to play with Diggy and my sis keeps saying I need another one for Ada..... How much would you want for her???