Well - I'm interested and care.....I know just what you mean. I LOVE my F&F but always avoid any personal subjects because, while they ask how things are going - they really don't want to hear about it ......my way to deal is just keep the comments to a bare minimum....
They seem to only want to hear good things and anything deeper than just superficial stuff is really not interesting I guess - Don't take it personal - I think it's just how some people are.
ps - Edited to add - I do notice some people will talk endlessly about themselves but if YOU try to talk to them about your own self - the subject gets changed very quickly LOL I think it really pays off to be a good listener but sometimes it can wear you down
Last edited by red98vett; 06-11-2007 at 05:31 AM.
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