i havent had any problems with messages........ do you have it set so that it logs you out automatically???? i know some sites do that (and it bugs me).... What i do have problems with is the picture pixel limit (especially in the avatar) i had to have someone else resize it for me , and some of my pics i couldnt post because the file size was to big.......... but that may be me just needing to learn how to resize the darn pictures......
Oh, and i must say, GREAT JOB KICKING OFF THE TROLLER......it was done very quickly (they could have said even more nasty things than they did)..... very speedy responses too
