My close friend threw a 50th bday for her sister a few years ago and her sister is very outgoing and loves all that stuff. They rented a hall for her party and from 7-8:30 it was for women only they rented a stripper and it was soo much fun let me tell you. It is more fun than anything else of course their bodies are all oiled up but this guy was dressed in a cop uniform and and he had an american flag bannana hammock on he looked damned good in it toooo. He was really nice though when we talked to him come to find out he did some work as a backup dancer for Shania Twain a few years back he was very down to earth and we had a great old time. After 8:30 the men were allowed in the party and strippers went away boooohooooo
it was fun though i say you should do it you only turn 20 once dont live life with what ifs!