when people dont respond and come anyway. maybe just say, hmm, I didnt expect you since I got no response to the invitation. Of course, I know that would be so hard to say, its like your asking them to leave or I suppose they would take it that way like they didnt do anything wrong, but you did. who know, people are really strange today and getting stranger. Meaning a lot less predictable and not very responsible. Most people figure if they dont get a response they dont plan on coming. |