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Originally Posted by eensor I didn't get defensive, I just wanted you to understand that many heavy people use the word "fat." Kinda like some homosexuals use the word "queer." Heavy people don't think "fat" is a derogatory term. I'm not fighting here, just wanted you to know where I was coming from. Let's be friends, okay?  |
I understand what you mean. but in reality thats not always true. some people ,including myslef, find it very offensive when people are called fat. there are other words to use plump, obeese, heavy. but fat can sound mean. it depends even though someone uses that term and they don't mean it badly some people who are obeese are very sensitive about what people think about them. if someone used the word fat around them it could really hurt their feelings. i just wanted to put in my 2 cents.