My two are the same way. When Kalani went in for surgery Hoku cried and cried and wouldn't settle down. I actually paid my BF's son to babysit her for the day till I was able to bring Kalani home! And both times when I had to take him back to remove bandages and then stitches I tried sneaking off with him and she cried so bad that I had to go back into the house to get her and take her with us