I had a lot of problems with Tilly and her separation anxiety. When I start to get ready she begins to shake and most of the time she has an accident on the floor. I know it was all my fault because when we first got her I would rock her like a baby and hand feed her her dog food.
Hubby thought I was nuts! The vet gave us some pills to help her. At first it just made her really sleepy and I hated it, then eventually it just didn't seem to help. Her condition also got worse about a month after I had a baby. It wasn't until recently I figured out she was just missing the mommy and Tilly time she was use to. So every evening when hubby and the baby have gone to bed I stay up and we have girl time.
She feels like a princess again.