Seriously Villette, I don't think you have as big of a problem as you think you do. My best friend is very large busted and always feels like she looks fat but she's just ill-proportioned. Have you ever considered a reduction? I'd love to say I would take some of it if that were possible!!
Although most of the complaints you hear nowadays are about high weight, I have always been criticized for being too skinny. No one with any tact would tell someone how fat they are but people don't hesitate to tell me I'm too damn skinny. Now, after having 2 kids, I not only still have a problem buying clothes because I don't think they make much in the Jr. dept. that a 35 year old wants to wear all the time but now I have that baby gut that's not in proportion with the rest of me. So see, not many of us are totally satisfied with our weight but I really think that we have a genetically predestined shape and have to learn to live with it (for the most part). If I had any will power at all, I would be doing crunches all evening but sadly, the exhaustion wins in the end!