My heart is breaking for you right now...I know how much you love Lily, but these little ones are so strong!!! You have to believe that she'll live a good life. I know the MVD is manageable for sure, and as far as the hydrocephalus goes, I don't know much about it, but I do know that sometimes these little ones will surprise you. I'm praying that God gives you the strength that you need to be strong for Lily, and I'm praying that God gives Lily the strength to live a normal, wonderful life.
I also want to add that Lily as absolutely gorgeous. She looks like such a sweet baby doll