growing up i was NEVER allowed a phone or Tv in my room... and yes... i said that EVERYONE had it.. however i know now (being 23) that i would have never left my room. I was being "forced" to watch tv with my parents and they were ALWAYS aware of WHAT i was watching. It wasn't until my second year of university that i got a TV in my room and BOY was i excited! i really think that age it too young. Especially with adolescence coming, you don't want her in her room ALL the time, you want her to be around so you can talk to her and know what is going on. that's just my opinion... she'll get over it.. i promise