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Originally Posted by Sukoshi's Mom  My husband and I just got married last July 31, and we are still young enough to have plenty of time for kids, but right now, neither of us think we want them, and we're perfectly fine spoiling Sukoshi instead! It's weird because I ALWAYS wanted kids (well...a little girl to be exact), but now that I'm married and in a position in my life to have one...I'm just not sure I want them anymore! I just tell everyone in my family to give us at least 5 years to ourselves (and our furbabies, of course - we have cats too), and then we'll reevaluate. At this point though, no matter how much I spend on Sukoshi, it won't be as much as raising a kid for 18 years + college expenses after that! We're happy with the way things are so far. |
I think that's so smart Lisa, your doing it the right way. So many people rush into having kids, they don't take time out for the marriage. If I had to do it all over again, I would have waited!