I hear you..I purchased my Biewer a couple months ago. He was not as expensive as some because he was going to weigh more then the standard of 7lbs (so not good for breeding), well, also his ears are large and one is starting to flop over (even though I am taping it like crazy), he isn't as tiny as some of the Biewers I've seen (which are adorable), but I tell you he is the sweetest guy with the most endearing face, and yes, he is going to get larger then I anticipated but I've accepted it and he is now part of the family. Don't worry about her ears, as long as you love her and she is a good companion to you thats all that matters. She is so cute you won't even notice the ears!!!
Kathy