Lol..Showdogs have pampered hair - Most yorkies don't look like what you see on tv....and if you have a busy yorkie.... then you probably will have to make the best out of the hair she has....
Do you use a good shampoo & Conditioner and rinse it out really well ? a Leave on Spray helps alot too...
There's lots of good products and if you do a search on this site you can read what people are using - I happen to use Chris Christensen Systems - and I think you would love it for your baby - Daily Shampoo and Conditioner - and The Ice on Ice Leave on - It works GREAT on courser hair.. Pet Silk and Plush Puppy are popular too -
Liquid Silk by Pet Silk another product I use after a bath - you only need a tiny amount and it smooths the hair really nicely.
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