I have been with my partner for 5 yrs. We met in 2002, 3 month before heading to boot camp for the NAVY. They haven't been on any long tours as yet but have been out to sea through out the relationship for 45 days or less.
Its very stressful at times, beacuse u have to plan your life around their schedule and miss out on a few things, but i wouldn't change it for the world
You have to be in it mentally or else you wouldn't be able to deal with it. Keep busy so you dont worry and stress out. And most importantly let them know u care and miss them dearly. (They need to hear it or read it). Good luck!