This is long and I apologize, I hope someone can give me some advice
My boyfriend just recently bought me my first yorkie. She is a doll and I love her to death. Her name is Lily. We both still live with our parents but Lily lives with me. So far, her training has gone extremely well. I am crate training her and taking her outside very often. In the beginning, she only had accidents in her crate at night.
Starting with the second day we had her, my boyfriend began taking her around 5 o'clock to his house. She is taken out frequently. She gets more attention from his mom when she is there rather than her 'daddy'. His mom is also trying to train her to not leave the yard and things like that. He has been taking her there for the past week and then bringing her to my house around 9pm.
My concern is that Lily will get confused from being trained at two different houses by two different people. She has been having accidents in my house in the past few days and I believe that it is occuring because of the frequent change of environment. I feel like the hard work I am putting in is being cancelled by my boyfriend's mom trying to train Lily at her house. I feel like Lily wont understand that I am her 'mommy' and that she will grow more accustomed to her 'other mommmy'. By all means, I am not trying to 'hog' Lily or get jealous. I am just concerned because the first weeks are the most crucial in training and establishing comfort.
Do you think this is good for my puppy?
-Tori