I'm sorry that your baby is having these issues!! What does she do when you just sit in the car without turning on the engine? Is she acting all stressed then too? Have you tried giving her a treat when you get in the car? Something really good, like a little piece of apple (peeled of course) or maybe a piece of banana. That way she'll associate getting in the car with getting a treat. How old is Miko? I have a Miko too
but mine is a boy