I Think this guy was just looking for a way out and her telling him you were seeing someone else was his way out!!! If he really wanted to be with you he would have came to you and told you what she told him and tryed to get more info straight from your mouth! I would just move on without him and I know thats hard and you have YT here for you to help you through this! But I was in a relationship for 3 years and we got along great and did everything together! We never fought and never argued but I had a miscarriage our 2nd year in and everything went down hill from there! I blammed him and he was HURT! I didn't see that and I just hurt him more by blaming him! But I broke it off with him after the third year as we were fighting all the time! He started lieing to me about thhings and I didn't feel he was the same as he was when we met! Now I am married to a wonderfull man and have two children who are my LIFE! But I still talk to my ex on a day to day bases! We are like BEST friends now! And no my hubby dont mind that I talk to my ex (he knows I would never do anything to ruin our marriage!)
So I say move on and enjoy being single. This man didn't want nothing more out of this relationship and thats why he didn't come to you and ASK you abou what your friend was acuseing you of! You have to have trust in a relationship inorder for it to work..........and he simply DID NOT trust you or he would have asked not blown up like that and left! |