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Originally Posted by SWEETPEA   you guys would not believe this. my friend told him i was seeing someone else and that i was planning on dumping him.  now im even more pist off. i told her our friendship is over.  and when i asked her why she did it she just to told me hes not the right guy for me.  i think thats my decision not hers. |
i am sorry but your friend is a B%^$% ... no friend should EVER do that to someone they care about .. if anything she should have set you down, let her know her concerns but not take your relationship in her own hands ...
the only time it is appropriate for someone to take matters into their own hands is if the relatinoship is abusive and you were in danger of being hurt. And to tell the bf that you were seeing someone else and making him mad is no way to go about it (if the relationship is a danger to someone .. imagine if he were jealous and mad befor eand then she told him that crap ... i don't even want to know what he'd do .... BUT NOTE PPLE THIS IS A HYPOTHETICAL SITUATION!! i don't want pple to get all riled up and crazy thinking she is in an abusive relationship b/c she has not said that)
but yes hun back to your REAL relationship, if he was smart and trusted you he would have spoken to you first and told you. I mean if someone told you that you'd be mad as heck too right? but would want to hear it from his mouth first you know? so maybe it was all a misunderstanding but taht seed has been planted, and if he is the jealous type he won't let this go easily or maybe not at all to an extent.
you're like 20 something right? Enjoy being single! you're in college and supposed to be having fun. hahaha. i mean college is fun if you havea relationship (i met my guy freshman yr.) but there's a different kind of fun when you're single.
