and my marriage does come first!!!
 
also I forgot to add that he works 2nd shift, so he comes home at 11:30 at night and I'm already asleep, the girls are already a sleep with me in bed, he could move them, but he don't. Last week he slept on the couch 
 
 
He has said many times that he feels to crammped in the bed, even if it's just him and I, he says when he wakes up his back hurts from not being able to strech. 
I suggested we go to a king bed, but we just bought are new Canopy bed 1 yr ago and I hate to give it up.