Hi,i have been gone for some time, glad to be back...I have the fighting problem with the boys ,father and son..when father wants to have a seat on a lap or couch, or if son looks the wrong way we have a fight. there have been times when they will not let go of one another,then the girls start to go at it too...well thats were the water bottle with half and half vinigerand water come in to play.....at one point my husband said spray them with the water so i took the sink facet and pulled it out and soaked them all in the kitchen....also son is fixed and one girl is fixed, I just keep telling them all 7 of them that i am ALPHA.....Any help with how to get them to let go of one another???????THANKS CATH54