Quote:
Originally Posted by Ozzie'sperson  Bless you, Papi. I couldn't help but get teary-eyed reading your tribute to little Kassie. I'm glad to hear the Nor'Easter didn't damage you any further. You've already had more than your share.
Kassie was a beautiful girl and a lucky one, too, seeing how much you loved her. You said you did the worst thing you ever did. Never think that. You did the most unselfish and loving thing you could for your dear baby. To have kept her with you and prolonged her suffering would have been selfish. Instead, you found the courage to put her first. That's not easy to do.
Sometimes, it's a lot harder to give up than it is to fight. At least with fighting you feel like you are in motion, going somewhere, doing something. So I prefer to think of it not as giving up the fight, but to give up your sweet girl because it was such an incredible sacrifice on your part. But it was also the kindest thing for your little girl.
Thoughts and prayers are with you. |
Hi Ozzie'sperson,
I'm sorry so late replying.
Quote:
You said you did the worst thing you ever did. Never think that. You did the most unselfish and loving thing you could for your dear baby. To have kept her with you and prolonged her suffering would have been selfish. Instead, you found the courage to put her first. That's not easy to do.
|
I do understand, believe what you say is true in every sense but it doesn't remove the guilt, I still did it, I think I'll live with it forever, yes I loved that little baby so much.
I appreciate, and thank you for your wise observations, your being kind enough to offer your support, I am grateful.
Thank you very much.
Papi